A perfect mother
Perşembe, Şubat 19, 2009 19:01 Do not ever forget the name of hope 23 years to write an article titled, and was sent to newspapers published within a week … this will end in joy, was from the heavens. Do you also forget that time had come one day I hope will be the name of the derdim nothing. I will never forget …
I had an excellent mother. Was French. Yıllar years ago at the age of 21 had come to Istanbul as a teacher … a former congressman who (Atatürk and İnönü time) every time the master of the old Istanbul, and was very handsome, do not call my father in 30 years despite differences were married, my father in Bandirma was placed on the farm, even if short had maintained a happy marriage. Mom to the side that we had in France Mamimizi. One of the things that are different from the age I was always think of it. The farm does not have electricity and water, even though living conditions are so difficult to place because of love only her husband, a city of Lyon in France from the left to a good life to come and how many people could afford even get what it could until. My mother had taken it, and it has never regretted. 4 children and lost my father and mother remain in the country even. My mother was so loved and respected.
After losing my father to come to the increased difficulties ardı began. How current are occupying land that does not cope well if people were women. In my childhood, my mother always tried to protect the land in court was a woman. The male is standing heroically in the face, the right to defense, did not show weakness. We try not to show one thing though sometimes a secret room was seen crying. Where knew how to behave. My mother was so loved and respected.
Farm jobs, jobs, land was so much that my mother is unable to provide us with a very strong man, and some proper compensation Mami, and we are very interested in us, was taken to visit. A glance what time you want it. Napoleon and the soldiers were gathered from the environment to us. Mamimiz That was good. Said her aunt Mami whole village. Second World War and lived through the scars of this war, which was a woman. What he nor my mother not watching war movies. All sirens sound again in the war lived.
My mother never us trying to fulfill the request would not mince a single word but it was enough for us. We have no power any more to say, none of this will take this request did not mention. In her Christmas tree with branches of pine trees used to make. And every Christmas gifts would come. Christmas morning, the four brothers together to wake up early before going to the bottom of the tree would not have absolutely none. (Years later, I wish all the brothers could be in the same unity and togetherness) I used to have a Santa Claus brings gifts to us. Did you ask Santa to bring my mother used to bike my mother said the situation could get by with little sense of father, mother is no thought of Christmas time. The first was the disappointing live. We gather around and I need to talk to you there was an issue. A seat he sat in front of my eyes does not go where we had gathered around. Christmas is not the father that he is bringing gifts üzülerek told. Do not worry, we take the gifts the next day even demişti.O our financial difficulties did not present the missing. This was fought for. My mother was so loved and respected.
One thing that was important in your life measurements. They had their own rules. We did not shoot at all, not a slap at even. Mami said a bad word in our mouths, but we would take cayenne pepper. To go to a place mother gave permission, but we’ll be at home at this time said 10 minutes elapsed time is that my mother did not talk with us a week. And no … but he felt that it was difficult to maintain the stability respects, I wish to pass a week sooner. My mother was so loved and respected.
Years after we graduated from school after two sisters rented a house and began working in İzmir. My mother and brother Mami were still living in the village. How much good all the time, we only live two brothers had no family pressure. Yet we never have the family pressures. Just measure and had the rules. And we did not see it as pressure. My sister and I wanted to have our side of our family. Mami do not want to leave the village was aging, too, but we love village seviyordu.Annem work was needed. My mother came to visit us a few days. And then the brothers have received news from my Mami was taken to the hospital. My mom just the way we were set forth in our minds what was passed, half French half English Mami hospital floor to each other was also there and won the affection of everyone, when we go to the doctor and nurses were collected beginning, who knows what they are told they were thinking. We have come to the doctor at the hospital Bandırma we’ve lost him, he said. January 1990 was 30. 1989 also saw him last 31.Aralık. New Year’s Day and my birthday was. Stars step was set to start the year as Mami. That night was crying. They were the network number. But he did not act on the night of Christmas. I was feeling and I was hurt. I did not know him to lose. I Lili its URL did. My mother had been destroyed. Got back to our house. Knitting has been part of. A plate and fork on the vertex of the bed was empty. Who knows what had snacks again. Children seemed to constantly have something snacks. Was so sweet. My mother was crying too. We would like not breathing. But my mother has recovered and began to cheer us. I was so loved and respected him.
Then my mother and my brothers but we have received from Izmir. We receive our salaries, but to meet rent and we had very little money. My mother did not break morale never. Jerry-built house is always with us are satisfied, was thankful. No time to go to the movies together, we have not been paid for. Everyone is now also established a life and we were left alone with my mother. He understood very well, too. My friends just to chat with my mother came to our house. Was multicultural. Had information about each topic. I could tell him everything. We had two of our life consists. I’ve dedicated myself to him. I did everything with him. I went with him to the bar, I went on holiday with him. Used alone to prepare and super Yılbaşlarında table. Visit the shop to shop, to go to break, to pull ourselves together had a banquet. He has dedicated himself to me. God gave me to him a good life. It began 5 years ago, everything. My mother began to notice the jumble of whimsy. Bored at home when I began here. Yet never was sıkılmaz. However, do not ever whim. Go out with my friends when I began to experience unhappiness. It was a two year. Then I also met at the age of 22 in Bodrum 35 years old that I have had to face again and with a be a life together we have decided to open soon. My mother firmly bad. They were unhappy. They were complaining. Now you can not do any of that food was good. Note that it has forgotten to do and food was too. I’ve moved to the basement next to my boyfriend. I told my mother if I could get. My mother did not want. And he found a woman next to caregivers at home with a good living in İzmir were. But my mother’s situation did not go well. My mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s doctor and now have a completely different person. A care home were given to him in Seferihisar. A few months later on the floor of our house in Bodrum and understand the lease for him and I found a female carer. During the 6 months has been living with us. But few would have had very unhappy. Do you remember the house in France, the nun was going to be so. (Nuns were read in school) 4 changed one woman carer. See us when we were working and not enough time with Him. We were taking him all night. But nothing could be happier. Nerves were very bad now. Is difficult to accept that my mother believed that I was having trouble. Because all was different. Although much more difficult in Izmir gave a good Alzheimer’s nursing home to him. A few months there. Forget everything, but do not forget me. All my brothers have visited him there and are looking for when I call my conversation with him can be seen even objectionable because of the balance is distorted, and the increase in tremor is said to have hurt him. I noticed I was on my way here. And the name of hope was beginning to forget …
In my dream last night I saw him years ago, just distributed in the hope that his mother was like. Mamiyle watch the news, and comments were made. ‘Lili makes coffee, are you saying to us was called Mami. In the past five years, I was so happy I do not remember. What I wanted to finish their coffee what a comment. What to run out of hope …
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